No I’m not just referring to the physical act. Sometimes we can become blinded by the “sexual” energy of a person. They comment on the way a dress may hug certain parts of your body. They always make mention of your physical characteristics. Now don’t get me wrong, are these things important? Sure. I mean it’s great to know there’s chemistry there but when this is the only topic that is explored you must start to question:
“Where is the substance?”
A real man doesn’t need to make your physical attributes a topic of discussion all the time. He knows that there are so many more parts to you that should be explored, devoured and tended to. We like to call this a man of substance. The one who goes deeper than the surface and puts in more effort in getting to know the real you. The man who doesn’t require a sexual favor but get more aroused by just being in your presence. The man who just accepts a kiss on the cheek and will not try for nothing more. The men who call just to hear the sweet tone of your voice. The man who has a plan and wastes no time seeing you fit right in his future.
Fix your heart on the man who supports your vision, admires your inner beauty, kisses your fears away and makes LOVE to your soul. ❤️